An Attempt at Profundity

I've been thinking about my friend Shadi a lot lately because her 23rd birthday is today and also because she has this personal tagline that simply says: growth...change...love...always. I don't mean to wax philosophical in my weblog but I guess that small collection of words has been on my mind lately. I've given a lot of thought recently to how much I've changed in the past 3 months, year, and 5 years--I'm finally beginning to feel as though I'm coming into myself as a young professional, a friend, a partner, and a sister/daughter. I'm trying to remember that I can neither please everyone nor can I spend my time lamenting my inability to please everyone. I can only do what I believe is right, treat every being in my world with respect and kindness, and know at the end of the day that I tried as hard as possible to be the person I want to be. I understand now that growth isn't a one-time or short-term goal, it's life. Change is the catalyst for growth and love gives us strength. Maybe it's the Thanksgiving season talking, but I'm trying to remember a little every day how fortunate I am to have so many people who love and support me, even when I am often unable to reciprocate in the ways that I'd like to. I am thankful. Thankful for growth, change, and love. Always.

Happy Birthday, Shadi!

xoxox